Thankfully, there is another side to this season of giving, one that doesn't seem to make FOX News headlines as often, but is pervasive nonetheless. I was very heartened this year, as I was signing on for volunteer work over at the Greater Chicago Food Depository (a non-profit food distribution center dedicated to feeding the hungry), to discover that so many of the shifts for seasonal warehouse duty were filled up well in advance. As with so much of the good work that goes on year-round in the non-profit sector, many people throughout the city (and country) are donating their time, talent, and money to various toy drives, shelters, elderly care, etc... While the mass media continues to pummel us with the worst examples of human behavior on display, many others simply carry on exemplifying the true spirit of the season.
It's not always an easy thing. Many of us are so caught up in our own day-to-day pressures, it can become difficult to recognize, much less care about, the challenges that face the community at large. Particularly in this current climate of fear and diminished hope, it can be very hard to extend a helping hand when, at heart, so many feel powerless about their own life situation. And of course, if you are like me, there is always simple laziness sabotaging even the best of intentions. Yet, as I've gotten ol...um, more life experience under my belt, I've also gained greater faith in people's capacity for compassion and goodwill (obviously, I do not watch much reality TV).
There is no denying the sorrow and pain woven into the tapestry of everyday life. None of us has to search far to witness suffering. But as with our potential for selfish and sometimes evil actions, there is also tremendous potential to alleviate, even if just in some small way, the suffering of others. There is a side to people that wants to do good. Even for those not following through or taking action, there is a yearning to make a difference somehow. There is so much underutilized potential in the world waiting to be tapped into. Everyone has it in them to give something this holiday season, aside from the latest "bling," iPad, or luxury vehicle (will someone please tell me when purchasing cars for spouses entered the realm of reasonable gift expectations?).
Christmastime in Chicago is a perfect opportunity to not only give to those less fortunate, but also to reflect on giving as a state of mind. Something about the dramatic seasonal change and semi-hibernation that takes place, along with the underlying melancholy of the holiday itself (which, for me, further underscores the differences between the haves and have-nots) can impose contemplation even among the most unsuspecting souls. It's a good time of year to be grateful for even the simplest of blessings and to also take notice of those around who could use a helping hand. There are so many great organizations to choose from (within your own neighborhood, through local churches, and even a basic Google search can provide many excellent options). There are opportunities that can accommodate pretty much everyone's schedules (and/or budgets) and in most cases the only requirements are will and heart, which most Chicagoans already have through braving so many ugly winters.
The spirit of giving is contagious and can be fun. Many non-profit organizations have group activities that can be accomplished with friends and family members. And it's not just about giving money or time, but also of your spirit and allowing that goodwill to pervade your consciousness heading into the New Year. Find something inspiring for yourself this season, stay inspired, and share your inspiration and talents with others heading forward. Oftentimes, the only thing providing solace in this world are those tilting the balance by sharing their light with others.
"Each small candle lights a corner of the dark"
-- Roger Waters
Some suggested websites:
www.chicagosfoodbank.org
www.inspirationcorp.org
